Ruffa Gutierrez Confirms Breakup with Herbert Bautista After Five Years: “We’ve Gone Our Separate Ways”

 June 20, 2025

Manila, Philippines — Actress and former beauty queen Ruffa Gutierrez has confirmed that she and actor-politician Herbert Bautista have officially parted ways, ending a relationship that lasted over five years. The confirmation came after weeks of quiet speculation from fans and followers online.

A Love That Grew in Private

Ruffa and Herbert never flaunted their romance in the public eye, preferring to keep things grounded and away from unnecessary media attention. In 2024, Ruffa opened up in an interview with Karen Davila, confirming they had been together for four years by that time. She described the relationship as “steady,” “supportive,” and “real.”

“He’s very respectful. He accepted me, my two daughters, and even joined us for our holiday dinner,” she shared during the interview.

The couple’s first known date was, in fact, a family Christmas celebration—an early sign of how much Herbert valued Ruffa’s role as a mother.

Mutual Support Through the Years

Herbert was also instrumental in encouraging Ruffa to pursue further education. She later completed her bachelor’s degree and continued with a master’s program in Communication Arts. Ruffa had expressed deep gratitude for his support in multiple interviews.

“He really motivated me to keep going. It meant a lot,” she previously said.

Their connection was widely seen as one built on mutual growth, respect, and shared values—though it remained largely outside the limelight.

Going Public—Briefly

In May 2025, Ruffa surprised fans with a TikTok birthday tribute for Herbert, showcasing moments from their relationship: traveling, dining, attending events, and even shooting hoops together. The post drew thousands of reactions and comments celebrating their seemingly strong bond.

That birthday tribute would be the last public mention of their relationship.

The Confirmation: Calm, Honest, and Final

Just days ago, Ruffa quietly confirmed to media outlets that she and Herbert had ended their relationship.

“Yes, we’ve gone our separate ways. It’s over,” she said briefly.

She did not share any additional details, choosing instead to let the closure speak for itself. Sources close to the couple said the breakup was mutual and happened “with maturity and respect.”

Still Hopeful About Love

Ruffa has expressed that while the relationship may have ended, she is not closing her doors to love. In a previous interview, she said:

“You can never say never. I’m older, wiser now. Whatever comes next, I’ll welcome it with grace.”

Fans have applauded her composed, grounded response. Many said her openness—and lack of drama—was refreshing in an industry often surrounded by public disputes.

Focusing on What Matters Most

Now that the relationship is behind her, Ruffa has refocused on family, education, and personal growth. She remains active in media, film, and advocacy work, while also continuing her studies.

Observers note that Ruffa’s journey has consistently been one of self-improvement and quiet strength—and this chapter is no different.

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